2022年1月29日土曜日

Buying from the Jesus Diamante Online Shop via Jpshopping

Heya Bunnies!

About a week ago my three beautiful jd dresses arrived♥️♥️ 

It all came in this giaaannnt bag..
I received exactly the same in a smaller size as well💕
They also sent this tote bag as an extra gift matching to one of the dresses I bought..😍
I also received this bag...which I found...interesting...
Also bcuz the picture is completely blurry and the font and...reality...is high quality lmao..
It feels so off owning this bag🙈

They sent this letter with it:
Is anyone able to speak japanese?
I WISH I KNEW WHAT THEY WROTE THERE..
And especially who signed it...

All dresses I ordered were size 42 and they fit PERFECTLYYY😍
I worried the sleeves might be tight but I am able to comfortably move around in them and the dresses are not as tight as all the 42 dresses I bought from older collections..

One thing I disliked about all of them is that their zippers are on the back...I hate zippers on the back🤣🤣
It's always soo tricky to close them...

So heres my shopping experience:
Personally I found the design a little bit tricky at first but when I actually put myself into it, it seemed more easy to use..
I went to the button "order" on top and chose "online shop".
You can give your item a name, put in the link and exact price and also write in the comment section what size and color you want.
You can buy multiple items at once.
Which is giving you more options than buyee.

Choosing from the jesus diamante shop however is a task...they name the colors so weirdly.
Either there are two white dresses and one is called "offwhite", the other "white" and you don't know which is which...
Or there are 5/6 colors available but only 3 pictures..
So you don't really know what dress you are ordering.
Luckily I am able to read katakana and some kanji, so I could guess what color to take but I knew it could arrive a different color...
However, I risked it because in the end, I like all Jesus Diamante dresses...
In fact, the last yellow rococo dress was a color I originally didn't plan to buy ...
But it ended up being my favourite one from the order.

Jpshopping had to contact me since they did not understand what color I chose and it was easy to reply. We had the conversation via E-Mail.

Everything went super fast. They sent out the package within a week.

There are two payments you have to make.
The first one right after ordering and the second before shipping out.

I could actually choose what value I wanted to put on top of the package..however I decided to put the original price I paid and then having to pay a lot of customs and taxes in germany again, than risking the package being lost and then I cant get my money back. Thats also the reason why I chose shipping with full price insurance..

And the package actually almost got lost.
It stuck somewhere for over 6 weeks, even tho shipping was 2-5 business days.
So I was WORRIED.

I contacted Jpshopping and they said the only thing I can do is contact the place where the package is supposed to be at that time, which was the customs station in Frankfurt.
I sent them an E-Mail and they said they are not allowed to tell any information and I have to contact DHL. And when I looked at DHL, they said I have to contact the custom station.

I was confused,scared and desperate.
I had no idea what to do...and then out of nowhere I became mail I can pick it up at the post office.
I was so glad they didnt lose the package.

Will I order with Jpshopping again?
Definitely! That the package was lost was def not their fault and you can order from any online shop from japan with this site..




2022年1月15日土曜日

Jesus Diamante Sizing

Heya Bunnies!!

I want to make a post about my favourite hime brand: Jesus Diamante!

I also like to call it JD...it's shorter this way🥰

Because before you start buying some of these lovely dresses it might be good to know that JD is not size-friendly at all.

I would say I am a EU36/38 (S) and wear JD size 42!!

Which is sadly also the largest size available.

So technically the chart could go this way:

42=S 

40=XS 

38=XXS 

Joking...it's probably not but it feels this way.

My measurements:

Bust: 86cm/33,9inches (AAA-cup)

Waist: 75cm/29,5inches

Hips: 96cm/37,8inches

My first JD dress I bought was a size 38...I didn't look up the sizing and even if, I nowhere found a size chart by JD after receiving the dress...because as most who are familiar with JD sizes would expect...it was way too small.

It was a dress with thick straps which weren't too tight, but about the zipper in the back..

I could never in a million years close it.

I still own that dress and I am thinking about adding something in the back🤔

Like a corset, to tie it in the back maybe...

Because that dress is so beautiful, I don't want to sell it...it hurts my heart so much. 

However size 40 is also very tight on me.

I have the feeling every dress has different measurements.

I bought a haul of different JD dresses (all size 40).

There was only one I could close unfortunately.

This one. Couldn't close it. Currently selling for 35€.
This one. Couldn't close it. Sold.
Same dress, different print. Couldn't close it. Sold.
I bought the same dress in size 42. I can close it now but the thick straps are still too tight. I might alter it.

So thick straps=tighter fit.
Same about this one. Couldn't close it. Sold.

I have the same dress in a different variation now in size 42.
I love it♥️ even tho I wished I could have owned the rare yellow one.

Thin straps=looser fit
This was the only one that fit. However it is uncomfortable under my armpits and I wish I could size up this dress. Currently selling for 39€.

All these pics were meant for a friend, so I wasn't styled and my room looked messy in the background🙃 I was still living with my parents back then.

Sometimes size 40 fits, sometimes not...however to be sure I stopped buying size 40 and I am only looking for size 42 now.

The best dresses are without sleeves..

Like this...I feel like the thin straps are more size-friendly.
Thick straps are tighter again. Like I said, every dress has different measurements...this is showing it again. I have the exact dress, same size but in a red tartan print and the red dress is bigger and the straps not as tight. So weird.

Almost all JD dresses are made out of fabrics that can't be stretched. Even if I fit in a dress, looking like a cute doll...I can't lift my arms.

I got one dress with short sleeves by JD (also size 42) and moving my arms was barely possible.


The dress before I cut up the sleeves...I never finished this "project" but maybe I should🤣

I cut off the band that was responsible for the bare movement in it and wanted to switch it with something else...maybe a satin band with an elastic band in it since you can find plenty of them in the stores. It wouldn't be difficult to find them.

There is one type of dress by JD that is a lil more friendly when it comes to sizing.

I got these in a size 38! And I can comfortably fit one of my arms in there as well.

(With my body together...if you understand what I mean).

It has no sleeves or straps and it has shirring in the back and in the front.

It exists in various different prints...so if you want to own something by JD but aren't sure if you could ever fit in...this one is worth a try.

About all others however, you need to be lucky to fit in.

So what now if I want to be a beautiful princess but don't fit in JD?

If you already own a JD dress and it didn't fit...think about DIYing it. Where is the problem?

Is it the sleeves? The zipper?

Think creative and come up with a great idea to alter it. 

And what if not? Find alternatives.

JD is all about looking elegant. Roses or rococo prints are typical...look at your fav JD design and analyse it.

Is it A-line? What fabrics are used? Whats the print on it? Are there any details that make it special? Bows? Tulle? How long is it?

And then try to find similiar dresses offbrand, you could also always glam up an existing dress to become as close as possible to your fav JD design.


2022年1月7日金曜日

Mall day with my friend and my dog

Heya Bunnies!!

Today I went to the mall with my friend.

It was snowing outside so I wanted to wear my boots.
I planned to go with heels but the weather here in the village is always better than in the city.
Sometimes we have summer here, and 10inch snow in the city...so I figured if it's snowing here, it might be a snowstorm in the city and I didnt want to stomp in my beautiful heels through the snow.
So I had to wear something black🤔
I wore tights, thermal socks, pumpkin shorts, a Jnorii black tulle skirt to elongate my ma*rs dress, a JD necklace and one of my black coats...
The hairbow is actually with rhinestones and pearls but I figured roses would suit better, so I put these hairclips on top.
My tights have super cute hearts on them💕
I pulled up my skirt only for you guys🤣♥️
These pumpkin shorts are super warm.
I also put on a shirt under my dress to keep myself warm. Sometimes I like to wear a sports corset under my dresses and pullovers during winter...
It's made of a stretchy material but it's tight on the skin and keeps me warm but today I chose a shirt, since I won't be outside for long.

Layering is very important for winter looks💕

Todays scent is by Playboy🥰🙈

Here is another picture of my outfit
Am I the only one who actually enjoys wearing masks? I actually feel more comfortable with them...
I have no idea how it will be for me when we don't have to wear them anymore..

After we were done in the mall we went to mcdonalds drivethrough...my friend isn't vaccinated so going to restaurants is very limited for us during the pandemic.
But it's actually quite good this time...that way we can take my dog with me.
Look how happy he is🥰
The queue at mcdonalds was so long!!
I bought sausage in a tube (for dogs) at the mall, so he did not have to starve watching us eating our fries and burgers🤣💕💕


2022年1月6日木曜日

Gyaru myths

 

Heyaa Bunnies!

New blog here.
I was wondering for a long time if I should make a hime blog or not.
I worked on a hime academy for such a long time but I hated absolutely everything about it.

I wanted to break down "tutorials and tips" as much as possible to provide a detailed guide on how to become hime but I felt like I was repeating myself a lot.
Plus because english isn't my native language I had troubles putting my thoughts into words.

I thought taking pictures would help, so I researched a lot of pictures and made drawings to put into these posts as I am camera shy but still I disliked them.

Not to mention, I perceived it as exhausting to create it bcuz I had my own schedule and plan for every point of it.

But I figured Instagram isn't such a great platform to explain either. I would need to make a hundreds stories again to make a single point clear.

But lately I've been seing a lot of gyaru "guides", clearly made by beginners that only makes things worse (I think). So my hands are itching like crazy to write about it to make things clear.

And where is the best place to post about it if not on a blog?

I want this one to be mostly about hime gyaru and this time I try to keep it as casual as possible. No own pressure here anymore. If I post, I post. If not, I won't. And if my post is only containing 3 words, so it be.

I want to post this entry now, so I don't have a pretty blog design or anything...I will do that later.
So sorry for ugly ass blog.

I keep seeing tutorials and guides on how to become gyaru and what is important and what not but most of these tutorials always are so plain basic that it's clear it was made by a beginner as well...or from someone who hasn't studied gyaru for a long time.

So here is me "debunking" these gyaru "myths" as I will call them now. 

For most points made by these tutorials I always found myself replying with "sometimes" and "If"...so maybe this post will be a better help.

Myth: As a gyaru you need a tan

I say: false!

Considering a tan is a must for gyaru is like saying everyone needs to look like a kuro gyaru.
As we all know, gyaru have plenty of substyles and it exists for years...and so the tan doesn't play a big role for most of these.

Tanning was an important part of the appearance for gyaru in the early days when it started in the 90s..however with the skin cancer awareness of tanning salons the popularity declined, and so it did for gyaru as well.
I would say around 2004-2006 you see more and more gyaru with pale skin instead of the tan look.
I think around 2008-2009 the tanning craze was off mostly...since also the tanning ads dissappeared in the magazines.

However substyles such as manba, kuro, tsuyome etc. have tanning as a must-have in their looks.
Also egg magazines were into the tan look after 2009 whereas in ageha are sunscreens for facial routines featured.

So you see, wether a tan is a must all relys on the question from what year your look will be and what substyle it is. (And what magazine is your inspo source).

As for tsuyome it is possible to go without a tan unlike most statements. Ever heard of 96gyaru? It's all about the tan and most of the time they wear tsuyome style...now look up the term "46gyaru"...
It's the same...without a tan.

Cute styles like hime, himekaji, amekaji, agejo etc. Do not need a tan at all.

For Manba/Yamanba, Ganguro however the tan is one of the basic "keys" of the looks.
The dark tan/skin makes the white make up look more contrast to it.
It's not possible to do these without tan/dark skin.

One time (I think a year ago maybe) I saw a post of someone claiming that it's possible to make manba without a tan...you "only need to wear a hibiscus necklace and platform boots".
I rarely heard that much bullshit.

If this person actually looked up more into manba they would have seen that the Atsuzoko (platform) look is one of the many ways to wear ganguro (90s gyaru)...but it's not necessary. There are many other ways to wear it. And the hibiscus around your neck? Thats also one of the many looks...I would say it's サーフ (surf kei) but for manba/ganguro. Anything tropical/aloha/summer inspired.

And there is also no tanning rule within gyaru style.
The tanning used to be a way to rebel against japanese beauty standards about the pale white skin.
However nowadays it's mostly about the looks.
Either because gals find it optically pleasant or because it makes their makeup stand out (for example for manba).
Gals from japan are not sensitive about the tanning/blackface topic...they literally don't care.

I used to tan a lot as well, I was obsessed with it because the darker I tanned the less visible were my selfharm scars, they practically dissapeared with tanning. And the marketing of these tanning lotions...the nice scents, the packagings...I def was a victim to it.

However tanning is super dangerous.
It's similiar to when you have an ED.
I got used to my tan and perceived my tanned skin as my normal skin, thus it had to get darker and darker and darker. I did not realise how dark my tan was.
I do now looking back at pictures.
I perceived myself as pale.
This is how tanning addiction works.

If I can suggest anything to anyone, then it is to ditch the tanning. For your own safety.
And become a gyaru with your natural skincolor.

Myth: You need gyaru makeup to be gyaru

I say: Mostly correct, but not completely

Makeup is one of the key elements of a gyaru lifestyle.
Most gyaru from japan would not leave their house without it and I agree on that point.

For a gyaru look to be complete it has to have the makeup.
Well, BUT...

It doesn't mean it's necessary 24/7.

Let's be honest, we are people, with lives...
And there are many reasons not to wear makeup.
I dont wear makeup at home or at work (physical work). It just doesn't make any sense...it's a waste of product after all. That doesn't make me less of a gyaru. If I have to go buy groceries after work I will be wearing no makeup and my work clothes (sweatpants and oversized shirt) of course.
I don't look gyaru. However it doesn't matter to me, because I know I AM Gyaru and I don't need to prove that to anyone? I do it for myself. It's my passion.

If you are going to make a gyaru look, make sure you do it with makeup. And if you only will be able to wear gyaru on weekends, so it be.

If it makes you feel better, you can deco your surroundings and wear chara PJs to make yourself feel more gal without looking gal.

Gyaru makeup consists of the following: colored circle lenses (CL), eyeliner, top lash, bottom lash.
However you can adjust your makeup however you need/like it. 

Similiar to the tanning point, the makeup also depends on substyle and year.

For hime gyaru who like natural makeup, I suggest looking up gyaru makeup from 2006/2007.
They barely wore any lashes back then and especially no bottoms. Most of the looks had such natural cl, technically you could do it without.

Natural makeup works best for hime gyaru that wear Jesus Diamante. Their makeup is kept very clean and not to eccentric.

Makeup needs a lot of practice. Practice makes master. Try out different techniques, styles and research a lot about it.

Myth: there is a substyle for every gyaru

I say: substyles are the worst killers for beginners

I agree that it's amazing that gyaru has that many substyles and it's easier to describe a style with one word than with hundreds. However it also narrows someones creativity.

Gyaru is gyaru.

Most styles overlap, are mixed and also changed throughout the years. That's why it's so difficult sometimes to tell wether a look still counts as "XY" style.

As for hime, lots of gyaru also used to wear lolita or wore lolita clothings for hime gyaru.
Naturally it gets confusing...

Also there are so many "basic" coords for gyaru that are easy to recreate for beginners but are often denied by them because it doesn't look "gyaru enough".

You don't have to be a kogal or and agejo gal to be gal. Gyaru used to be trendsetters.
They loved to standout.

Ganguro in the early 00s started wearing kigurumis into town as a joke, created a whole trend for a couple months and then went for something else again...but here we are 20 years later calling it a substyle.

I personally think that's what most of substyles are...trends of a time period. That's it.

I suggest beginners to choose a magazine instead.
Ranzuki serves a different vibe than Ageha or Egg.
Each magazine features many styles but however still you can recognize that they follow a "pattern".
I think it's easier to create looks that way.
Also choosing obviously doesn't mean sticking to it.

I naturally feel myself more drawn to ageha and their looks. No matter wether it's hime, agejo, rokku or something you can't name.

Myth: The best place to shop is AliExpress

I say: AliExpress is a great place to shop cheap items but shouldn't be tip number one

When I started actually becoming gyaru after knowing it for a couple years I used to buy a lot on AliExpress...however I stopped after a couple months and since then very rarely buy from it.
My looks became better afterwards.

AliExpress sells products that will be of interest of many people, not specifically gyaru.
There are items you can use and especially things that are "one-time-use" or just a tiny detail of a look...it is acceptable.

However if you want to really go with a great look...I recommend buying secondhand.
Vinted for example.
Or check out facebook groups..

Buyee is also a great place to buy off mercari.
Most items are way cheaper over there...you can also find rare items.
I recommend buying a bunch then.
At first it's like a gunshot straight to your heart looking at the bill.
But it is WAY CHEAPER than buying each item over time.

As for hime again, depending on the looks you want to create you can buy locally or at non-gyaru shops.
I want to make a post about that sometime.

If you have sincere passion, consider DIY as well.

These are some of the statements I heard a lot right now. Of course there are many many more.

Please comment if there are any other statements you want me to look into.
I am on fire to create content rn🔥

You can also DM me them on instagram if you want to stay anonymously (Ig: bunnies.debunked).

What do you think about it? Agree or disagree?

I probably will change my blogdesign the next few days to spice things up a lil🙈💕

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